On Becoming a Gratitudian II
If we would become "gratitudians", that is, people whose lives are characterized by gratitude, we would do well to practice gratitude.
We become what we do.
Consider the words of Paul in Ephesians 5:20: "...be filled with the Spirit, as you sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs among yourselves, singing and making melody to the Lord in your hearts, giving thanks to God the Father at all times and for everything in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ." (NRSV)
Focus on those italicized words. Paul uses a participle, which denotes continuing action, underscores it with the word always, and underscores that with the phrases "at all times" and "for everything."
Do you think maybe Paul thought that giving thanks ought to be a constant practice among followers of Jesus?
I read that this way: Always keep on giving thanks all of the time for everything and in ever situation.
Paul doesn't seem to think there are occasions when we should not offer thanksgiving!
His call is for constant, consistent, ongoing, thanksgiving at all times and in every circumstance.
Now does that mean that we must constantly walk around repeating the words, "Thank you, thank you, thank you?" Well, that wouldn't be a bad practice would it? (It might get a little tedious, especially for those of us who are not multi-taskers!) But maybe that's what it would take for us to develop the habit of thanksgiving as we journey toward becoming gratitudians.
I think the deeper point is to become someone whose life is marked by gratitude, whose very being exudes gratitude, whose every gesture and word is filled with grace.
Such a person is a constant offering of gratitude.
Let me add one other thing here that goes beyond this text, something I just realized this week-end...More often than not, far more often (maybe even always!) Paul directs all thanksgiving to God.
While a few examples may exist of Paul offering thanks to a person, his practice seems to be to thank God for the person and for their actions. "I thank God for you.." is more often on the lips of Paul than a mere "Thank you..."
I had not noticed that before this week-end when I was flipping through my trusty Strong's Concordance and noticed time after time when Paul employed that kind of language.
I think that kind of 'thank you' is better than a straight to the face thank you.
When we thank God for someone (and/or for what they have done) we rightly name them and their action as "gift." They are not just accidentally in our lives and their presence and their action are not accidents either.
They are signs of God's grace.
In thanking God for others and their actions, we place ourselves, the other, and their their action toward us all within the province of grace.
We are thus living the moment in the domain of ultimate reality, that is, in the domain of the sacred. The ordinary give and take of life becomes charged with the grandeur of God.
I thank God for you! I thank God for your many kind words of encouragement. I thank God for good and patient people who read what I write because I have little choice but to write (or speak!) I thank God for you because without you I could not be me.
You see? My simple act of writing and your simple act of reading is a gift- a sign of grace, a sign of the love and presence of God!
Now what if we saw everyone and everything with those eyes?
More tomorrow.

